Dear Miss Kitty, I have been married for 11 years. Other than the fact that we are friends and we are there for each other in most ways, it is fairly lackluster. I never thought a marriage could be much more so I was reasonably happy. Recently I have met a woman through a class [...]

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Dear Miss Kitty, My fiancé and I are getting married in two weeks and I am freaking out. A few nights ago he went to a bachelor party that his best man had arranged. They did the bar thing and apparently ended up at a party. The next day he had a text message and [...]

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Dear Miss Kitty, I woke up before the dawn today, and was busy working on a problem at my computer. Suddenly I noticed that morning had come and it was light out. I wondered if life is a lot like that. You start life and without really noticing what is happening, around you things change, [...]

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Dear Miss Kitty, My husband and I have been together for many years. As much as I like our relationship I am becoming aware that I don’t really know myself anymore. I know what “we” like, but not me. How do I find me again without threatening my husband’s feelings? BR, Santa Barbara Dear BR, [...]

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