Dear MK, My husband and I go on an annual fishing trip every spring. This year, I told him I don’t want to go. He says I am being selfish. So I ask you, am I being selfish when I have gone on this trip for the last 26 years? He says (but not true) [...]

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Dear Miss Kitty, I met a woman whose company I really enjoy. I would like to know her intention regarding a possible intimate relationship, but don’t want to scare her off. On the other hand, I would be perfectly content just being friends. I like to be upfront – so should I say something and [...]

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Dear Miss Kitty, I have been unable to find anyone who I’d like to have around me for long. It seems like everyone has so much going on already, they don’t want to make the time – the quiet time to really get to know someone. I haven’t given up, but as time goes on [...]

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Dear Miss Kitty, I recently broke up with my BF of 4 years and am ready to date. I have been advised that I should wait a while. So what is a reasonable time to wait and if I want to date now, why shouldn’t I? Kelly B, SANTA BARBARA Dear Kelly, Like the IRS, [...]

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