Dear Miss Kitty, I am taking a break from dating for a while but what I want to know are some tips for really getting to know someone without getting too deep into ultra-personal information too fast.   That always seems to happen and I need to stop it. David, SANTA BARBARA Dear David, Along with [...]

Continue reading...

Dear Miss Kitty, On the heels of last week’s question, I have often wondered why certain people blame a mid-life crisis for having an affair, but more interesting to me is why someone does it at all. I am in my 50’s, never married, and am thinking of settling down.  Being at this stage in [...]

Continue reading...

Dear Miss Kitty, I have been dating a guy that runs hot and cold.  Half the time he is wonderful, loving and great to be with.   The rest of the time he seems distant and not particularly loving or wonderful.  Do you think if he was with the “right” person he would be Mr. Wonderful [...]

Continue reading...

Dear Miss Kitty, After 20 years of a good marriage my husband decided he wants to call it quits. He turned 50, met someone at work, they became friends and one thing led to another. I know this is pretty typical and I think this is a true mid-life crisis. Out of it all, the [...]

Continue reading...