Dear Miss Kitty, I must strongly suggest, as one of thousands of other decent looking, kind and good hearted males living in Santa Barbara, that Greg M. has spoken a simple truth about finding a nice date here. He is not trying hard enough, you say, or looking in the wrong places or perhaps ignoring [...]

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Dear Miss Kitty, I moved to Santa Barbara about 6 months ago. In the last 4 months I have dated 17 different women and there hasn’t been more than a 2nd date with anyone.   What is it about women in Santa Barbara? All they seem to be interested in is my bank account. I know [...]

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Dear Miss Kitty,   I met a wonderful woman who had just relocated to SB from an affluent area.  Our previous two dates had gone very well and I wanted to make a third dinner date with her.  I offered two suggestions for our date which were more than adequate, but she wanted to “upgrade” [...]

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  Dear Miss Kitty,   I am single and have met a very nice man through the internet dating system. He is everything I want as a mate, may be for life. We see each other almost every day and have a very comfortable relationship. Well… I just got a new person showing up on [...]

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Dear Miss Kitty:   I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year and we have a strong and loving relationship. He has had a relationship with another woman for a few years that is a business/friendship one although he has told me she wishes it was more than just friends. Since [...]

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